Fast or Slow Sex
To each her own, and that
applies to what a woman wants in bed -- either fast sex or the slow,
smooth kind. However, it seems that most women prefer the sensual
approach rather than the pound-pound-pounding away type.
A slow, smooth approach will enable you and your partner to employ your
senses and experience all the bliss related to the sexual experience.
Feel her soft skin, see her lovely face, hear her moans, taste her mouth,
and smell the scent of her body.
True, most films favor and highlight the fast and hard sex, but that's
just on film, silly! That's the way it's supposed to look -- quickly
and vigorously. How else can they sustain your interest if they
otherwise took the slow road? It'd be rather boring, wouldn't it?
So, in order to get that wild and exciting impression, the porn stars are
instructed to take the fast road. That's why men have created the illusion
that this is just the way it is supposed to be done. Well, sorry to
disappoint.
Besides there are advantages to the slow approach. One is that you get to
explore her body more. It's not just her breasts and her twat that
matters. Have you tried licking her ears, touching her nape or the back of
her knees, or massaging her foot? These are highly
erogenous areas of the woman's body and it'd just be too selfish of you
if you don't provide her the pleasure.
Women are turned on with kissing, caressing, licking (slurping even). It
just sends her to the edge as you masterfully rein her back. This only
makes her even hornier! She'll want you more and more if you tease her;
building up the aching need inside her. Don't you just love hearing her
moan and feel the tingling down her spine?
Build up her longing with romantic nuances like flickering candles, rose
petals, fresh sheets, sweet music, kinky underwear or sex toy. This whole
romantic package is important for her, so don't you try to shortchange
her. Try out various foreplay techniques first before taking the slow
plunge. Intense and increased desire only makes way for numerous orgasms.
A slow approach also conserves your energy for that surging crescendo. If
you thrust harder and deeper, you are in a rush to get there. You're only
forcing it, and it's not as satisfying as it should have been otherwise.
It could also give your honey a stiff neck or sore back, for that matter.
Several seconds of frenzy rewarded by a quick orgasm is rather limiting.
Why not extend your pleasure even more?
Learn how to control your urges. Build up her longing with slow,
deliberate thrusts, pausing curtly, and constricting your inner muscles.
Touching fosters a stronger connection,
and the more you are familiar with
each other's bodies, the more intimate your sexual encounters would be.
Every sexual experience means so much for a woman. So, try to approach
your love-making with sincerity, confidence, and respect. You can show her
this by making her feel special and by considering her needs. She may not
say it out loud, but she needs more than a steely pecker inside her.
You can learn more tips and techniques to give and receive maximum pleasure in bed at
The Ultimate Sex Guide!
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