Male Insecurity and Jealousy
So, you finally got the girl of your dreams.
She's fine-looking and sexy. She's definitely a catch! Every time
you go out, other guys are checking her out. So, you hold her
closer, have a protective arm around her, and cast steely "Don't you mess
with my girlfriend" stares at the other guys. You closely watch her
every move and feel a pang of jealousy and insecurity, even at times when
it is not the least bit warranted. You constantly call her up to
check up on her or count the seconds before she answers your call.
You've been too paranoid too many times whenever she says she's out with
her girl friends or co-workers, or if she's meeting up with a high school
sweetheart or an ex-flame. You instantly erupt in jealous rage at the
mention of past loves.
You feel trapped by your insecurity and direct your energy to over
protectiveness and jealousy instead. So, you try to buy her time and
attention by overwhelming her with the prettiest flowers, wonderful gifts,
expensive dinners, and luxurious holidays. You want to control and
have the upper hand in the relationship. You utilize the
possess-and-isolate tactic on her. You always make excuses for her
to be always with you, or to be available at your beck and call. Her
girl friends are exasperated with you and upset at how possessive you are.
So where does all this insecurity and jealousy spring from? You may
have bad experiences before regarding relationships and loyalty, and you
ensure that it doesn't ever happen again. In turn, you intensely
guarantee that you are the sole object of her desire.
Male insecurity has also been known to directly correlate with a
deficiency in the size of the male member. Many men are bothered
that they are not big enough or they're not going to please their ladies
with their current size. This probably explains the thriving and
often lucrative business that is penis enlargement.
Another reason may be about money or resources. Many guys feel
disdain, oftentimes envy, towards other men who are better off than
themselves. With more money, you could probably spend lavish gifts
for your girl; and with more presents, you think you make yourself highly
desirable and attractive.
Men, just like women, also need to be liked. They want to be respected,
adored, and esteemed. They want to be feel important and special to
someone. They want to be loved and needed.
So, how would you rein in your insecurity and keep your jealousy in check?
Take time to do a self-assessment. Improve your looks and learn new
things. Go to the gym, join sports club, or enroll in short courses like
foreign languages, arts, or even acting. More importantly, is the measure
of trust and loyalty that you and your girl have for each other.
Don't let
your insecurities cloud your judgment and ruin your relationships. Treat
her with respect as much as you would want her to do the same for you.
Have a vigorous and healthy sex life! Watch your insecurities
disappear! Start by making the
necessary changes now! Start with
SizeGenetics now!
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